Healthy Use of Technology
Over the past few months, I have been exploring the use
of technology as a way to expand my services. I remember
over a year ago, I often sat in my living room with
my husband relaxing for the evening, as he duel screened...television
on and lap top open. Intuitively, I felt it was unhealthy.
Not only was he working at night, during his only down
time, but also immersing himself in technology at all
times, except when he was sleeping. It was a demanding
work period, but he also grew used to it.
That winter my step daughter helped me decide to start
using Facebook. I saw her looking at all her friend's
pictures and we had a long discussion about it's value.
I had been contemplating it, but was trying to figure
out, in my own head, whether it would serve me.
After that discussion, I opened an account and began
my dance with social media. I am a very social person
and rarely get my needs met in this busy culture. Facebook
was the answer. I use it as a marketing tool and as a
way to stay in touch with friends long distance. I also
have made wonderful new friends and colleagues. It has
expanded my social and professional world globally. My
big success story with Facebook is that last winter,
I was hired by a colleague that I met on Facebook, to
help her open her yoga studio in Panama. A two month
position that profoundly changed my life. I was sold
and began selling it to all my friends & colleagues.
Soon, I started using Twitter. Although I met a few
good friends there, marketing has not been fruitful and
the layout is too over stimulating for me, so I link
Facebook to Twitter. If people want to reach me, they
reach me via Facebook.
So that is my social media story. Now I am onto thoughts
about offering services on line. "Hold on! Put on Brakes!
What am I doing?", my inner voice shouts. I began noticing
that most evenings, my husband and I were both duel screening.
We rarely spoke to each other at night while relaxing.
My screen time doubled during the day, doing outreach
on Facebook and e mail. Soon, I began to notice, my professional
practice was not benefiting anymore. I needed to get
out and do some face to face networking again. This
was this past summer. It was such a joy to share my work
at festivals and TOTALLY unplug. I began to feel my body
again. My own natural rhythm.
This Spring, I am offering a workshop called Law of Attraction
and Marketing for Small Business, with marketing maven,
Kaitlin Maud. She says, aside from all the many ways
to market, which are all valid and effective, that still;
even in this technology age, "Word of Mouth" is THE MOST
EFFECTIVE way to market your work. Technology use is
a great way to remind people of days and times. It can
supplement your outreach verses be your only source
In my own exploration of technology use, experiencing
the pull to offer healing services on line; in this moment,
I have made a clear decision that a healthy moderate
use of technology is best for me. I enjoy sitting at
my altar meditating before a client comes. I enjoy helping
my clients to learn to relax, heal & reach their intentions
without the interference of Electromagnetic Fields (EMFs)
and the high pace that is a side effect of technology
use. I enjoy offering "in person" workshops, where we
create a healthy and spiritually conscious community,
sharing healthy lifestyle practices that don't involve
use of technology. Yes, we use an ipod for music and
I do my marketing on line. It's about creating a healthy
blend that works for your body and your needs.
- Magnet technology can assist in blocking the EMFs coming off your computer screen (and from T.V., if also on in room). I purchase my magnet technology from Colleen Myers, Nikken Wellness Consultant. She can be reached at email@example.com
- Himalayan Salt Crystal products also dissipate EMFs when heated by candle or electric light bulb. I have also been guided to put them in my bath to clear energy. You can find them at health foods stores, New Age shops, as well as on line.
- Before you automatically plop down in front of the computer each day, check in with yourself and ask these questions...
- Is this what my body needs right now?
- Can I connect with people in a more personal way?
- Can I accomplish this task in a more personal way via phone or setting up a meeting?
- Notice how you feel when you are on the computer for an extended period of time. Do you feel better or worse?
- If you feel worse, how can you monitor your own technology use?
- Only go online at certain times of the day.
- Choose a number of hours and keep track in your calendar, if need be.
- Physically separate from your technology. Store in cabinet or another room.
- While using the computer or handheld device, notice your breath. It is deep and steady or shallow and sporadic? Are you holding your breath?
- Also, slow your typing to your natural rhythm...the way you type when your breath is long and deep, with complete exhales.
- Check in and decide when you've had enough and it's time to switch to nontech activities, like walking, creating (art and music), spiritual practice, cooking, watering plants, cleaning tasks, visiting friends, playing with your pet and more. Notice how you feel when you do these types of activities.
- Alternate with handwriting. Everyone loves to receive a handwritten note or card. Also hand write some of your work. Use an idea journal. If you buy a journal with unlined paper, you can also draw in it.
- If you find you have spent too much time on the computer and need to ground, practice qi gong, restorative yoga, alternate nostril breathing, three part breathing, get a hot stone massage or tong ren treatment, take a hot bath, take a walk in nature or any other relaxation techniques that work for you.
I'm playing with all this myself. Let's help each other to live richer healthier lives.
Below is a link to a very informative documentary called Digital Nation. Learn how the brain functions and is effected by technology use (multi tasking) & how technology use has become an addiction for many of our youth...
Law of Attraction and Marketing for Small Businesses will be held Sunday April 25 (Portland, Maine) and Saturday May 1st (Boston, Mass.) For more information and to register, visit